Not Loud? Not a Problem. How to Make Friends When You’re an Introvert

Let’s clear something up – you don’t have to be loud, bubbly or outgoing to make friends.
You don’t need to be the centre of attention, the one telling stories at the table, or the girl with a huge group chat that never stops pinging.

Some of the most wonderful, thoughtful, kind girls are the quiet ones – the ones who love deep chats more than small talk, who need a bit of time to warm up, and who leave a party early because they’re socially exhausted.

If that’s you – you’re not doing friendship wrong. You just haven’t found your people yet.

You don’t need to be “on” all the time to belong

So many friendship spaces out there feel built for extroverts – loud events, big groups, icebreakers, networking vibes. And honestly? That’s not for everyone.

We Got You Boo is different. Our walks, meet-ups and group chats are warm, low-pressure and easy-going. You can talk loads, or just listen. You can come solo and take your time. You don’t have to perform. You don’t have to be anything other than yourself.

Most girls are more nervous than they let on

Even the ones who seem confident are probably wondering the same things you are –
Will I fit in?
What if no one talks to me?
What if I’m not fun enough?

The truth is, you’re probably someone’s exact kind of person – they just haven’t met you yet.

And when you step into a space where everyone’s there for the same reason – to meet other kind, likeminded girls – that pressure to “be more” fades away.

It’s not about being outgoing. It’s about being open.

You don’t need to be the life of the party to make amazing friends. You just need to be willing to show up – even if it feels a bit scary at first.

We’ve seen the quietest girls come to a Kind Girl Walk, then end up planning brunch the next weekend with three new friends they didn’t know an hour earlier. Not because they forced anything – just because they were open to connection.

If you’ve ever said “I’m not good at making friends” – this is your sign

You don’t have to change who you are to belong somewhere.
You don’t need a big personality to be loved.
You just need a space that feels safe, soft and genuine.

And that’s exactly what We Got You Boo is.

You don’t have to be loud to be heard here.
We see you. And we’ve saved you a seat.